Positive Thinking

http://ezinearticles.com/?Positive-Thinking:-5-Benefits-of-a-Positive-Attitude&id=6447588

    Based on this article, Lea Bullen said that people have their own way to think and it is always related to their personality. If they have a wicked attitude, it is shown that they are one of the negative thinker. The positive thinker will held in high esteem by the society. They show their good personality as others first perception to them. As we knew, others first perception to us is always crucial. Positive thinker will always face their problems patiently so that their mind will think wisely and result in finding a better solution.
    How to develop positive thinking in negative thinker? It is not impossible as long as we believe in ourselves and always try to make a change for our own good. We have to train our thinking and leave the negative one. There are some advantages for being a positive thinker.
     Firstly, our focus in something will be improved especially while we are facing a problem. We put first our priority in something and put others on the side. Our mind will work better if we are in focus. Secondly, our stress probability will be decreased as we manage our complex situation wisely. Next, as we knew, negative thinking will definitely affected on our health. On the other hand, if think positively, we actually avoid ourselves from diseases that may cause the worse, for example, a deep depression that can cause mental illness.
     Besides that, we actually keep ourselves esteem on the top, out of our awareness. Our confidence and motivation level will getting higher and confident in what are we doing. Last but not least, our thinking will not influence in ourselves, but unexpectedly, we actually make others around us change for the better too. Then, it will result in happiness and success in our life.
     It actually a choice to be a positive or negative thinker. So, we just have to use our thinking to choose either one. We can do extraordinary things by changing our thinking.
     

500 Days Of Summer (movie review)

 Synopsis:

    This movie is about love. Everyone has his/her own meaning about it. Some believes it while some doesn't. It's shown in this movie when Tom, who believes it and Summer who doesn't. This story begins with Tom's life. He works as a card writer in Greeting Card Company. He falls in love with Summer Finn, the new his boss assistant. The story about them begins when Tom attends to karaoke bar as his friend invited him. When Tom arrived, Summer was singing a song on the stage. Then, they three sat together and talk about love. Summer said that she doesn't believe in love and that's why she doesn't have a serious relationship with the guy. Tom denied it and said that he believes in it. On the way home, his friend told to Summer that Tom likes her. Then she asked Tom and Tom said that he likes she as a "friend". Starting from that night, they become closer and "over" intimate. They spend most of their time and having "fun" together. One day, when they are in a bar, a guy tried to approach summer. She’s uninterested with the guy. The guy won't believe she's with tom. Tom then punched the guy and they get into a fight. At her apartment, she mad at Tom and they mad at each other. Tom then said that everything that they have done together is not what "friend" should do. Then he left summer. Summer then came to Tom's apartment and asked for apologizes. They came together again. It does not end here. Summer suddenly asked to not see each other anymore. Tom then entered a deep depression until affected his works. On the way to his friend's wedding, in the train, suddenly he saw summer. They then close together again until the day that tom's realizes that she is engaged. Tom was in a deep depression again. But after his sister, Rachel advices him, he realized all his wrong expectation about love. Tom and Summer then meet at their favourite place and Summer said that she and his husband are meant to be together. She then walk away and leave Tom. Tom accepts it. When Tom was on his way to attend to a job interview, a girl asked him if they have met before. Tom said no and suddenly the interviewer called his name. Tom then turns back and asked the girl to get some coffee. She agreed and introduced herself. Her name is Autumn. This is how the story ends.

Character that I like the most:

     In this movie, I like the most Rachel character. Even she just a little girl, but actually she can think out of the box. Even a tiny girl can makes a huge differences. She can think over his brother, Tom can. It is shown in this movie that whenever Tom gets in a problem, she is the who will advice, motivate and makes Tom think wisely about his relationship with Summer. That's why I love her character. 

Moral values:

     From this movie, I realized that people have their own belief in something. No one is the same. Others can't read what is in our mind. It is shown in Tom's and Summer's character when they have their own belief in love. Besides that, our expectation is not always become a reality. So, we don't have to put all of our hope to someone. In this movie, Tom put all of his hope to summer and that's why he is really depress when he realized that his dream is not really become true when Summer finally become someone's wife. 

My opinion:

     I think this movie is a good one and should be expose at the younger age with the parental guide because this movie is not totally about the romance but also it teach us how to have a further thinking. With the guidance, the younger one will not narrowed their mind and think for their own good in surviving this complex world.